Develop a music player without using com component.

Most of the Multimedia features are based on DirectShow technology, which is basically based on COM Components. There are some modern Multimedia features based on the Media Foundation components. Note that Microsoft Media Foundation uses a mix of COM constructs, but is not a fully COM-based API. You can find more information here:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/windows/desktop/ee892371%28v=vs.85%29.aspx

Since you want to develop using C#, I know a programming toolkit (leadtools) that has .NET Multimedia assemblies that wraps DirectShow COM components and provide high level programming layer for .NET developers. This toolkit supports almost all the features that you are looking for. You can find more information about it here:
https://www.leadtools.com/sdk/engine/multimedia.htm

Also, they have Media Foundation components:
https://www.leadtools.com/sdk/multimedia/media-foundation.htm