Hi Members,This person needs your advice.. Plzz help

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http://www.c-sharpcorner.com/Forums/Thread/116594/completely-depressedfinding-no-solutionkindly-advice.aspx

Suthish Nair · Answer

Ok, even you are not sure that's a valid thread also. Because, she even not replied to the threads that she got.

Savita Joshi · Answer

@Sam Hobbs, No i dont know her. A job will give her financial independence and support her. This is my view to her problem.

Sam Hobbs · Answer

Savita, do you know her? Do you know that giving her a job will solve all problems?

Savita Joshi · Answer

@Sam Hobbs, I agree with u but personal assistance is what her close ones can give her. If she is not having her close ones then that is very unfortunate and she is posting here it shows she is so much in depression and distress.. If someone can offer her a job seeing her capabilities it will be a tons of help..

Sam Hobbs · Answer

Rekha needs some personal assistance. She needs to be told she is a good person and things like that. Helping her would be a personal thing. This site is a technical thing. Personal involvement is unusual in this environment. It is too easy to make a technical remark that is easily misinterpreted emotionally. The things I said could be misinterpreted. Someone might misinterpret what I said and think that no one cares. I hope that did not happen but it could. Rekha is not really asking for career advice. Read what she said again. What she really is asking for is much more personal.

Suthish Nair · Answer

I didn't said you were wrong, sometimes its happens we expecting good results or advices but will not work. I just shared my comment, no hurt feelings plz.

Kavita B · Answer

@ Suthish, I dont know why you said so. I just tried to help a person by calling member attention so that people here are experts who can guide her for her career.. Atleast some1 can help get a job for her as she wants to support herself. Rest i dont know what people think,i just tried to help..

Suthish Nair · Answer

Kavita, I dont think asking this thread in any forums is good. Because sometimes it also causes negative impact on that person. So we cant assure what will be the outcome.

Karthikeyan Anbarasan · Answer

@Sam -- You are rite sam... we cant help unless and until we get to know on what exactly they are... @Kavitha -- we can just guide her in her career to do so thing which is really useful. getting a job is purely on thr commitment and geting through... def we are the ppl who can do help her in getting a better career... Hope i am correct...

Kavita B · Answer

@Sam Hobbs, Career advice alone wont help. If someone can help her find a job or help make her career that will be of great help. Can anything of this sort be done? As she has said that she needs to support herself

Sam Hobbs · Answer

She needs more than advice; much more. If it was just a matter of giving advice then many people would help. It is not a matter of not wanting to help. I doubt that I can help. It would be wonderful if all I needed to do is to be nurturing and understanding and tell her that everything will be good and she will find joy and happiness. Perhaps it would help if we were assured that this is authentic. We have no way of knowing whether this is a scam. I once tried to help a woman. She said we will have a family together but her Mother was sick and needed heart surgery so I loaned her a lot of money. I was sick and needed medical assistance. I instead borrowed a lot of money to loan to her for her Mother. Then because I was sick I lost my job. Her Mother died in an accident. I lost my job. I moved in with my parents. I was very sick but my parents did not care. When the woman found out I was sick and out of a job and living with my parents she did not call again. We all have stories to tell. I wish it was as easy to get help as to just post a bad luck story. There are millions of people that I would like to help if I could. I totally cannot afford emotionally and financially to be much assistance to others. Please don't think that people are not helping just because they don't want to. Don't use guilt to get people to help. If the person cares then trying to use guilt will just make them feel worse. If the person does not care then guilt will slide right past them. Do you really believe that a little bit of career advice will help Rekha? If so then I sure hope someone can do that. There are many people like Rekha and I wish I could help all of them. If Rekha or you or anyone can be more specific about what would help her then that might help a lot to get her help.

Hi Members,This person needs your advice.. Plzz help

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