how to find a right career in life

Hi Sir, my name is Nizam , i am now 26 years old , i did my bachelor degree in 2009-2012 BCA ( bachelor of computer application )which means i did not completed it yet, i failed 2012 at 2 paper then i did not write , then after i worked in .net fields 2.8 years experience in MVC, windows, untill 2016 march , then i looked another job, i still dont know what am i passionate about it coding or something , i dont know something i love interesting programming but when i try to do coding it's hard may be very less knowldege or something then i feel like can i change the job ? , now i am working in a different fields like office assistant , now again i would like to try programming , but i am not sure what to do with my career ?, struggling alot , i am nervous about turning ??? i changed my kerala native job , it was a .net , but paying less , so family have problem with financial , so always try to do learn from there , but now i dont know what to do ? i dont have a degree is it the biggest mistake in my career life ??, so can you please advice me how can find my right career ?? Thank you

Nizam,

I posting some reply just so that you should not feel that everybody is ignoring you.

Typically, 'career advice' questions are almost always difficult to answer because the situations are so unique to the someone asking question, it is very difficult to put ourselves in your shoes. Anyway.

Personally, I was very well aware at the very early time that I am a person of average intelligence. So I thought I will have to struggle more to achieve something which others would do very quickly.

So I just kept on trying.

If you choose to go back to programming again, you will need to be keep trying as if there is no way left to go back. The initial phase of this transition will be painful but it all depends how you continue against all odds.

Don't think too much about mistakes in the past because it is a waste of time and energy. You have learned your lessons so just move on.

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Nitin Sontakke9y ago
Nizam,

I posting some reply just so that you should not feel that everybody is ignoring you.

Typically, 'career advice' questions are almost always difficult to answer because the situations are so unique to the someone asking question, it is very difficult to put ourselves in your shoes. Anyway.

Personally, I was very well aware at the very early time that I am a person of average intelligence. So I thought I will have to struggle more to achieve something which others would do very quickly.

So I just kept on trying.

If you choose to go back to programming again, you will need to be keep trying as if there is no way left to go back. The initial phase of this transition will be painful but it all depends how you continue against all odds.

Don't think too much about mistakes in the past because it is a waste of time and energy. You have learned your lessons so just move on.
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