Reading datetime in sqlite

I have a desktop application in which i am saving the user with datetime

while saving my table datatype is datetime

i am saving like that

com.Parameters.Add("@CreateDate", SqlDbType.DateTime).Value = _create.ToString("dd/MMM/yyyy");

while reading i am using that code

sql_cmd.CommandText = "SELECT UserName, IsNever, CreateDate, ValidDays, ExpireDate FROM Users WHERE (UserID = @UserID) AND (UserPassWord = @UserPassWord)";

sql_cmd.Parameters.Add("@UserID", SqlDbType.NVarChar).Value = UserID.ToString().Trim();

sql_cmd.Parameters.Add("@UserPassWord", SqlDbType.NVarChar).Value = PassWord.ToString().Trim();

rdr = sql_cmd.ExecuteReader();

while (rdr.Read())

{

objClsUsers = new ClsUserLoging();

objClsUsers.UserName = rdr.GetString(0).ToString();

objClsUsers.Never = rdr.GetBoolean(1);

objClsUsers.CreateDate = rdr.GetDateTime(2);

objClsUsers.ValidDays = (short)rdr.GetInt32(3);

objClsUsers.ExpireDate = rdr.GetDateTime(4);

}

rdr.Close();

it gives exception on the highlited line that "Invalid DateTime Field Format: 19/Oct/2015"

anyone can assists me in that regard Thanks in advance