retrieve specific field from multi fielded dropdown list box

Please help me.,

i have a multi fielded drop down list box like..

in my drop down list box every column look like this with these fields from database....    "  gender----name---phno---town---state---country "

 EX:-

 

male---ashok---123456789---hyderabad---telangana---india

female---sirisha---9876543---chennai---chennai----india 

female---sri---56743219---vijayawada---andrapradesh---india 

 

but., i want retrieve  the specific  field from the drop down list box column

Ex:- 

i want print ashok (name) in another lable or text box from drop down list box in ASP.NET