UPDATING in database

Question

I have this problem when editing and updating my database. here is my scenario.
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1st Form -----> http://i56.tinypic.com/mj4p52.jpg
2nd Form -------> http://i52.tinypic.com/v7xvk.jpg

all the stuff of how the program works is in the screen shot hope it helps in understanding my problem guys.

Help please its much appreciated.

Thanks