How to optimize asp page when loading too much data

I need to fetch too much data from database something round 8000-9000 records. And I also need to have searching ,sorting and paging in the page. I tried to use jquery to fetch data. It worked fine but the problem is I need to have a asp controls in the records like link buttons and all to do some events on code behind. How can I do it. I tried the following code but I cant add any server controls in it. Any body can help.

 

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